Do you want to try Kinky sex wearing kinky lingerie, but you’re not sure where to start? Do you need something to get you going, but you’re worried about what you might find?
Don’t worry, it doesn’t matter if you’re a first-timer, or looking for something a little more intense- we’ll walk you through the top 10 kinky sex moves to try (and really get your imagination going).
- Try a Blindfold
Blindfolds are an amazing way to start your kinky journey. You don’t have to go out and buy anything special (although you certainly can!), but a scarf or a tie will absolutely do the job. The sensory deprivation experience can be extremely sensual and is a quick and effective way to really spice things up.
- Edibles in Bed
There’s something incredibly decadent about eating in bed, and this just takes things up another notch. Enjoy each other’s company (and bodies), by using whipped cream, chocolate sauce and other tasty treats. Intimate, kinky and delicious- what’s not to love?
- Watch a Movie Together
An adult movie, that is! Try watching some adult films together. You can be as tame or as kinky as you like. Then, when you’re both all revved up, try out some new positions and ideas on each other. If you’re really into it, keep the movie playing in the background.
- Restraints
This is another fantastic option for both beginners and experienced kinksters. If you’re just starting out, grab a scarf or a tie (really handy items, right?), and try tying your partners hands. If you’re looking for something spicier, try a spreader bar, body harness or body chains or some cuffs to get into the mood. Take the opportunity to take charge or caress your partner all over. I guarantee it will liven things up!
- Sensory Play
Sensory play can take so many forms- all of them extremely erotic. Try drizzling warm chocolate over your partners most intimate spots- then take your time licking and sucking it all off. Use an ice-cube and trail it all along their skin or try hot massage candle oil instead. This is especially effective when paired with a blindfold and restraints (if you want to get extra, extra naughty, try a gag as part of the play)
- Outfits and Costumes
Costumes and kinky lingerie are good for adding some novelty into your relationship. Tap into your fantasies and try on something new. Maybe you just want some sexy lingerie to get you going, or maybe you’ve always loved the idea of playing a sexy nurse. It’s totally up to you and your partner- but don’t be afraid to experiment!
- Roleplaying
This ties into the last idea, but it’s a really fun way to add some kink into your sex life. Roleplay by dressing up in the bedroom or meet each other at a bar ‘for the first time’ for the thrill of a one-night stand, with none of the risk! Let your imagination run wild.
- Public Play
Public play is so incredibly sexy- just make sure you don’t break any laws! You can do this by touching each other beneath a table or wearing a remote-controlled toy. Get busy in an empty room at a party or beneath a blanket in your car. This one is a little risqué, but the adrenaline makes this an amazing experience.
- Threesome
If you and your partner are both into it, then why not invite someone else to join the fun? Pick someone you trust (and both find attractive) and enjoy each other in a whole new light!
- Pain and Pleasure
For more experienced players, try bringing a little sadomasochism into the bedroom. Try clamps or a crop for a sensuous experience that will light you up. Something as simple as biting or choking might work for you.
No matter what you try, remember to play safe, respect your partner’s needs and make sure you’re both having a great time. It’s perfectly fine to try something new and then decide it’s not for you. In the world of kink, there’s something for everyone, so don’t be afraid to embrace your kinkier side and really enjoy yourselves!